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I'm in a love with an Army Guy
by burningheart, Nov 06, 2008 10:19AM
He is now stationed in Kosovo. We met on a dating site and I was attracted to him from the start. Big, strong, had good morals, great in bed. The last time we slept together, right before he moved, he got up and left in the middle of the night. He didn't call me until 1 month later.
He moved away but called me twice and he would say "call me anytime you want" but I never did. I was trying to break my addition to him because I figured he really didn't think I was the "one".
My problem is that I can'' stop thinking about him. I see his face in my mind. I want his arms around me and his lips on mine. I want to be a part of his life.
It's been 2 yrs since I've seen him, he is in Kosovo now. He will be going hom to another state. I will probably never see him again but I really want to. I don't want to be a stalker, I only want him if he wants me.
He is on 3 different dating sites and his myspace page has mostly women - unattractive women if I must say so. One girl has one eye bigger than the other. Most are overweight.
Anyway, how can I break this hold he has over me. I want him so bad I can't think of anyone else. Yet, I know it's fruitless.
He doesn't write or contact me in any way. Sometimes I think he posts thinks on this dating sites that are meant for me but that could just be wishful thinking.
I need help!!! I am at a loss of what to do. Do you think he really does want me but I missed his cues?
(I also posted this on the Relationship forum, I am trying to get an outsiders opinion.)
He moved away but called me twice and he would say "call me anytime you want" but I never did. I was trying to break my addition to him because I figured he really didn't think I was the "one".
My problem is that I can'' stop thinking about him. I see his face in my mind. I want his arms around me and his lips on mine. I want to be a part of his life.
It's been 2 yrs since I've seen him, he is in Kosovo now. He will be going hom to another state. I will probably never see him again but I really want to. I don't want to be a stalker, I only want him if he wants me.
He is on 3 different dating sites and his myspace page has mostly women - unattractive women if I must say so. One girl has one eye bigger than the other. Most are overweight.
Anyway, how can I break this hold he has over me. I want him so bad I can't think of anyone else. Yet, I know it's fruitless.
He doesn't write or contact me in any way. Sometimes I think he posts thinks on this dating sites that are meant for me but that could just be wishful thinking.
I need help!!! I am at a loss of what to do. Do you think he really does want me but I missed his cues?
(I also posted this on the Relationship forum, I am trying to get an outsiders opinion.)
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What you need to do is stop looking for him on dating sites and stay away from his myspace page. Get out there and meet some new people. You have already wasted 2 yrs of your life thinking about this person, now it's time to start thinking about you. I wish you all the best and you will find that special one that wont leave in the middle of the night.
Thanks for both your advice.